There are two absolute dream killers when you are pursuing a goal:
You will never be successful if you blame something or someone for your lack of results. You have to acknowledge THE TRUTH. The Truth is that it is YOU who took action, or didn’t take action. It is YOU who got you to where you are now.
In order to complain about something or someone, you have to believe that something better exists. You have to have a reference point of something you prefer that you are not willing to take responsibility for creating. Anything in your business that you complain about is something that YOU CAN ACTUALLY CHANGE if you are willing to take the risk, and take the action to change it.
If you aren’t getting any recruits instead of complaining you can talk to more people about your business opportunity.
If your parties aren’t going the way you want them to go, you can take a hard inventory of yourself and find out how others are running their parties and see if there is anything that YOU should change in your strategy.
The circumstances that you complain about are, by their very nature, situations you can change, but you have CHOSEN not to take the risk and take the action.
If you want to get from where you are to where you want to be, of course you’re going to have to take that risk and take that action.
To have a powerful psychology, you need to take the position that you create or allow everything that happens to you. By create, I mean that you directly cause something to happen by your actions or your lack of actions.
You cannot be a victim and achieve your dreams at the same time. You cannot stand by passively and wait for things to happen. If you want your goals to come true you have to give up any Cs and Bs and MAKE IT HAPPEN!